I choose to forego the norm to reach the heart of others. This somehow confuses the humans my age and they seem to believe that this breeds chaos. When has selfless love brought down a human and caused pain. It may not be written into the procedures of the career that possesses you, but that is what makes this love so meaningful. It breaks no rules for it is pure and childlike. It is actually a level that moves the fortunate to the next higher level of being. For they may be unfortunately lost, yet are blessed to have landed in your palm.
So, whatever your place is in the world, caring for the other, especially when it is not written that you do so, is more important to the being's existence than the control of the chaos it never touched.